From Child To Adult

When your child is a pre-teen, it is important to deal with issues of puberty and sexuality. With proper guidance and understanding parents can help their children make the transition

2/2/2016 2:44:40 PM
written By : Vijaya Dalvi Print

For parents, the transition of their offspring from child to teenager brings a minefield of challenges. Pre-teen parents are always apprehensive and anxious as they are the first to notice the physical and biological changes in their child.

Most children we find learn about sex from others, like friends, books, pornographic material, TV, movies, and magazines and several other sources that we may not be aware of. But the actual place for a child to learn on this subject is at home and school. When a child discusses something with his parents, it is generally not shared with anyone else. But discussion on this important subject in school becomes a hot topic among peers. A child who learns very little about sex from his parents or school tends to have a corrupt mind. But a child, who has been properly taught about reproduction/intercourse is more aware in the correct context.  Innocence is a function of attitude not information. When a pre-teenager understands the specifics of sex in a right context that it expresses love and begins new life, his innocence is saved.

BEAT THE ODD

Bear in mind that teaching facts about reproduction to a child does not rob him of innocence. At times parents feel odd to broach this subject with their children, they don’t understand when and how to begin. At such times it is better to take the help of professionals in this field, if possible. There are qualified therapists who give talks in schools and colleges and have private practices too. Don’t begin any sessions as a parent and end it like a lecture. You need to explain these things gradually over a period of time; sometimes it may take months or years too.  Information is given on an as-and-when basis. If you can’t answer a particular question, be honest, ask someone, do some research and then answer. Do not get over it by bluffing. The reaction of your child on your discussion should be respectful.

HANDLING ANXIETY

There will be lot of problems of different kinds, some you may least expect. You have to be alert to monitor, guide and intervene whenever necessary. Sometimes children feel sad, act depressed. Parents are aware something has changed. When a child goes through physical and biological changes, it affects their psyche, which leads to anxiety. Here parents need to encourage the child to face fear and not run away from it. Anxiety in children leads to negative thoughts. A child needs to be encouraged to express his anxiety. Once you have understood the child’s emotions and showed that you have identified his problems and will solve it, he feels comfortable. Parents need to stay calm as children look up to them. 

1 comment for “From Child To Adult”

  1. Posted Saturday, August 4, 2018 at 11:58:54 AM

    ralph lauren


    michael kors outlet


    true religion


    coach outlet


    timberland


    mlb jerseys


    cheap jerseys


    moose knuckles jackets


    ysl sunglasses


    vans shoes


    replica watches


    nike store


    birkenstock sandals


    nfl jerseys


    timberland


    supreme pas cher


    nike flight bonafide


    michael kors outlet


    nike air max plus


    red bottom shoes


    michael kors outlet


    longchamp handbags


    hockey jerseys


    coach bags


    hermes bags


    nike shoes


    salvatore ferragamo


    north face


    coach handbags


    nike sb


    pelikan pens


    nike epic react


    ray ban sunglasses


    hermes bags


    nike shoes


    adidas jeremy scott


    oakley sunglasses


    fitflops


    skechers sandals


    dior handbags


    nike outlet


    adidas superstar


    superdry


    nike air max 1


    versace bags


    hollister clothing


    christian louboutin


    nike blazer


    jordan


    light up shoes


    ysl makeup


    ronaldo jersey


    russell westbrook shoes


    beats by dre


    ray ban


    nike shox


    longchamp outlet


    jordan


    air max


    saucony shoes


    new balance sandals


    lululemon outlet


    north face


    nike air max


    snapback hats


    nike dunks


    jimmy choo outlet


    canada goose


    curry jersey


    ray ban sunglasses


    under armour shoes


    canada goose jackets


    longchamp


    christian louboutin shoes


    ralph lauren


    prada outlet


    pandora jewelry


    visconti pens


    ralph lauren jeans


    coach factory outlet


    christian louboutin


    ralph lauren


    coach wallets


    polo outlet


    maillot de foot


    tom ford sunglasses


    rolex watches


    vans shoes


    nike kd 10


    monster headphones


    lee jeans


    supreme clothing


    columbia outlet


    nike air max 2018


    omega watches


    prada bags


    true religion


    ray ban sunglasses


    jordan 1


    basketball shoes


    oakley sunglasses


    christian louboutin


    nike cortez


    nike free


    louboutin


    lebron soldier 11


    cheap soccer jerseys


    nike flip-flops


    adidas slides


    undefeated clothing


    jordan shoes


    ray ban


    polo ralph lauren


    longchamp outlet


    timberland


    tiffany & co


    coach outlet


    burberry outlet


    ray ban sunglasses


    mlb jerseys


    kate spade purse


    coach outlet online


    vetements clothing


    nfl jerseys wholesale


    nike factory


    michael kors outlet


    puma slides


    nike kd 8


    links of london


    supreme


    ray ban sunglasses


    lebron 14


    cristiano ronaldo jersey


    soccer jerseys


    ugg boots


    nike air max


    camisetas de futbol


    bvlgari jewelry


    oakley vault


    vans outlet


    suicoke


    nike huarache


    manchester united jersey


    herve leger dresses


    tory burch shoes


    tory burch sandals


    oakley sunglasses cheap


    columbia outlet


    nike outlet


    michael kors


    maglia calcio


    coach outlet


    nike kyrie 2


    polo shirts


    balenciaga sandals


    north face outlet


    ugg outlet


    christian louboutin shoes


    woolrich jackets


    lebron soldier 9


    nike tn


    manolo blahnik


    baseball jersey


    michael kors handbags


    true religion sale


    mbt


    ray ban wayfarers


    tory burch outlet


    adidas shoes


    nike shoes


    breguet watches


    soccer jerseys


    nike free


    malone souliers


    burberry outlet


    fitflops


    cheap jerseys


    mulberry handbags


    tiffany rings


    supra shoes


    pandora jewelry


    nike air max 2017


    kate spade handbags


    victoria's secret


    ralph lauren


    ralph lauren


    nobis jackets


    michael kors outlet


    cheap nfl jerseys


    manolo blahnik shoes


    lebron james jersey


    michael kors


    tory burch


    oakley sunglasses


    lebron 13


    mac makeup


    adidas wings


    tory burch handbags


    x-large clothing


    oakley sunglasses


    philipp plein


    michael kors outlet


    ray ban sunglasses


    maui jim sunglasses


    tommy hilfiger shirts


    converse shoes


    puma outlet


    fußballtrikots


    mont blanc pens


    longchamp


    timberland boots


    mizuno shoes


    michael kors


    nike air max 97


    jordans


    jordan 5


    nike hyperdunk


    basketball shoes


    nike presto


    stussy clothing


    hermes kelly bag


    prada sunglasses


    cheap jordans


    ray bans


    north face jackets


    adidas nmd for sale


    nike lunarglide


    fingerlings


    nike outlet


    cheap nhl jerseys


    ray ban sunglasses


    adidas stan smith


    mac cosmetics


    coach outlet


    russell westbrook jersey


    kevin durant shoes


    coach outlet


    spalding basketball


    nike free


    coach factory outlet


    nike dunks


    nike outlet


    reebok shoes


    coach outlet


    nike huarache


    mont blanc pens


    lululemon


    christian louboutin shoes


    replica rolex watches


    burberry sale


    versace sunglasses


    nike factory


    timberland


    jordans


    jordans


    nike air max 90


    maillot de foot


    linda farrow sunglasses


    ralph lauren


    tom brady jersey


    givenchy handbags


    ferragamo shoes


    pandora jewelry


    fila


    michael kors handbags


    tiffany jewelry


    michael kors outlet clearance


    new balance


    coach factory outlet


    ferragamo belt


    ralph lauren outlet


    trikots günstig


    nike mercurial


    y3 shoes


    jordan 3


    coach outlet


    coach outlet online


    adidas yeezy 350 boost


    vans outlet


    vibram fivefingers


    flip flops


    pandora charms


    pandora jewelry


    sac longchamp


    mcm backpack


    football shirts


    kobe 11


    nike shoes for women


    asics shoes


    north face outlet


    ray ban


    prada handbags


    coach outlet


    jordans


    jordan shoes


    ralph lauren


    coach outlet


    marcelo burlon


    adidas nmd outlet


    prada outlet


    maglie calcio


    nike roshe


    burberry outlet


    oakley sunglasses


    wholesale nfl jerseys


    louboutin


    pandora jewelry


    camisetas de futbol


    police sunglasses


    harden vol 1


    jordan


    coach outlet


    oakley sunglasses


    dansko


    supra shoes


    air jordan


    montblanc pen


    michael kors uk


    juicy couture


    puma fenty slides


    louboutin


    ysl bags


    hermes outlet


    nike blazer


    nike air max


    coach factory outlet


    birkenstock outlet


    fitflops


    nike outlet store


    ray ban sunglasses


    nike air force 1


    converse shoes


    jordan pas cher


    michael kors handbags


    lebron soldier 10


    converse


    ugg boots


    tiffany jewelry


    nike revolution


    ralph lauren


    yeezy shoes


    nike air force 1


    flops


    kate spade outlet


    nicholas kirkwood shoes


    nike free run


    ralph lauren


    michael kors handbags


    hundreds clothing


    soccer jersey


    jordan 4


    marc jacobs


    cartier bracelet


    jordan xx9


    beats headphones


    longchamp


    pandora outlet


    pandora charms


    coach outlet


    stuart weitzman


    adidas shoes


    north face outlet


    adidas football boots


    polo ralph lauren


    persol sunglasses


    ray ban


    oakley sunglasses


    paul george shoes


    sophia webster shoes


    converse shoes


    adidas outlet


    lebron ambassador 10


    kate spade handbags


    versace clothing


    nba jerseys


    jordan 12


    swarovski rings


    audemars piguet


    birkenstock


    marc jacobs handbags


    nine west


    nike trainers


    kobe 12


    hermes bags


    shoe carnival


    new balance


    polo ralph lauren


    pandora jewelry


    bcbg


    breitling watches


    lebron 15


    air max


    jordan 11


    cheap nfl jerseys


    air jordan


    balenciaga


    michael kors bags


    nike tennis


    jordan shoes


    ralph lauren


    oakley sunglasses


    tag heuer watches


    ray ban sunglasses


    swarovski crystal


    mbt


    mac cosmetics


    philipp plein outlet


    polo outlet


    red bottoms


    balenciaga triple s


    tods


    birkenstock shoes


    polo ralph lauren


    levi jeans


    van cleef & arpels jewelry


    supreme new york


    snapback hats


    adidas outlet


    coach outlet


    michael kors outlet


    pasotti ombrelli


    yoga pants


    running shoes


    ralph lauren


    ferragamo shoes


    harden vol 2


    oakley sunglasses


    wedding shoes


    off-white clothing


    onitsuka tiger shoes


    miu miu handbags


    celine handbags


    flipflops


    true religion jeans


    nike air max


    russell wilson jersey


    coach outlet


    canada goose outlet


    jordans


    belstaff outlet


    louboutin


    mishka clothing


    yeezy desert rat 500


    pandora jewelry


    omega watches


    coach outlet


    nike air trainers


    supreme clothing


    true religion jeans


    hermes belt


    new balance shoes


    jordan shoes


    under armour


    teva sandals


    stephen curry shoes


    nike outlet


    mikimoto jewelry


    roshe run


    bottega veneta


    nike kyrie 3


    adidas stan smith


    lebron 15


    ray ban


    true religion outlet


    valentino shoes


    michael kors outlet


    nfl jerseys


    giuseppe zanotti


    michael kors handbags


    kate spade outlet


    nike air max 95


    alexander mcqueen


    nfl jerseys


    christian louboutin outlet


    adidas ultra boost


    michael kors


    nike air max 270


    mlb jerseys


    barcelona jersey


    coach factory outlet


    adidas flip flops


    swarovski jewelry


    jordan 6


    kate spade outlet


    canada goose sale


    kate spade outlet


    coach outlet online


    parajumpers jackets


    off-white


    fitflops sale


    ralph lauren outlet


    nike air max


    fitflops


    michael kors purse


    michael kors handbags


    jordan 8


    nfl jerseys


    baseball bats


    miu miu sunglasses


    dolce & gabbana


    adidas yeezy


    jordan


    adidas outlet


    chenyingying20180804

Leave a comment
 
All Copyrights Reserved @2014 India Se
Engineered by : ZITIMA